Every individual in this world has a personality, that is without a doubt but not all personalities are pleasing or a good conduct. People without realizing get attracted and influenced by individuals with a charismatic personality. A person with good personality can influence and make people work easily. No matter how intellectual or good looking or convincing a person is, without good personality the person will not be able to go far.
Concerning the personality development of an individual:
1. Adequate Behavioral Skills
2. Self-Grooming
3. Good Communication Skills
4. Good Listening Skills
4. Treat People Nicely are the top factors, without which personality cannot be developed.
Adequate Behavioral Skills: A person with a cherry personality knows how to behave in every situation, he or she knows what is to be spoken and what is not. The person is focused on what is important, he or she is not bothered about pointing out others behavior or talks bad about other person’s behavior. Simply, a person with adequate behavioral skill knows how to behave and how not to behave.
Self-Grooming: Not only the clothes and accessories matter but what matters the most is the way the person carries itself, well-groomed hair, short and clean nails, good shoes, well-kept clothes, oral hygiene, pleasant smell, use of clean handkerchief and so on. Though sometimes the cost may be high as they say the first impression is the last impression, it is very important to be presentable at all times.
Good Communication Skills: Communication plays a very important role in the world, every living being survives on the basis of communication. Lack of communication can lead to a lot of problems. It is very important for a person to be able to communicate the message appropriately; it is a rare talent of using less but correct words to express oneself that is using minimal words and to the point. The use of communication helps to enhance a person’s personality and charisma.
Good Listening Skills: A person must not only be able to communicate well but, should also have the good listening skills, a research has shown that most of the people learn well if they listen well, not everyone has the patience to listen for hours, but it’s very important to listen. It provides a platform to not only learn new things but observe the behavior, body language, the use of words, pauses and the length of the sentence and the eye contact the communicator is maintaining.
Treat People Nicely: In the hustle bustle of the world we often forget our basics, we are so busy and stressed in life that we forget to show gratitude to people who help us. It is very important for a person to be able to treat another person the way we would like to be treated. There is no doubt that a person with compassion or empathy has a charming personality.
